I never understood the divide of seats at weddings. When my wife and I got married, a lot of the people there were mutual friends of both of us. Most of the people, in fact. To ask them to choose who they were more friends with seems just bizarre. 

I never understood the divide of seats at weddings. When my wife and I got married, a lot of the people there were mutual friends of both of us. Most of the people, in fact. To ask them to choose who they were more friends with seems just bizarre. 

(Source: wertheyouth, via lgbtlaughs)

Tags: weddings

Anonymous said: Shut the fuck up about vaccinations. Not everyone has to have them, not everyone believes in them. Uneducated fuck.

xaudelle:

aspiringdoctors:

restless-wafarer:

aspiringdoctors:

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You know, my homie and secret best friend Neil deGrasse Tyson said it best….

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This isn’t an issue of belief or should even be up for discussion. It’s not a debate- like gravity or that the Earth revolves around the Sun isn’t up for debate. It’s a fact, whether or not you like it. Sorry bro.

And any ‘educated fuck’ knows that vaccines are necessary and everyone who can have them should have them.

Have a lovely day, sugar. 

Actually there’s a lot of research and knowledge supporting the fact that vaccines are NOT necessary. It is simply another thing that today’s health system is super big on, just like hospital births and c-sections. And a lot of people actually have long term and short term complications from getting vaccines. Ahem.

Dang guys, you thought I didn’t check my activity log every now and then? Because I knew shit like this would pop up. And, I just finished my block exam and am feeling fiesty.

Actually you’re wrong. That ‘research’ is either completely fabricated OR grossly misinterprets the data OR uses shitty research techniques to get the data they want- all which are grossly unethical, in case you’re curious. I’ve got slides from a recent lecture on vaccines (aka why I am so fired up about this nonsense). You can check out the citations on each slide if you don’t believe me… something unsurprisingly missing from literally every anti-vaccine comment I’ve gotten and website that I have visited. Show me your sources, honey, and if you do, I will blow them out of the water because not a single one stands up to current scientific research standards.

There are however tomes and tomes of research for the safety end efficacy of vaccines. Don’t believe me? Look at a simple google scholar search.

So! Here we go! 

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Holy shit, it’s almost like vaccines SAVE SOCIETY MONEY. In fact, they give money back to society, along with the other programs indicated by red arrows. Which would be really weird for something that is just a healthcare fad like c-sections and hospital births.

And most people have no complications for getting vaccines, and if they do, most of them are short term. In fact, it is devilishly hard to prove an adverse effect was because of a vaccine. Why? Because it’s how we’re wired. We falsely see connections and causes where there are none (called a type 1 error; you are rejecting a true null hypothesis). People are more likely to attribute an adverse health event to a shot- even if that shot is the placebo and the numbers are just the background rate for whatever health event in the population.

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And here is a graph showing the sample sizes necessary to prove that an adverse event is caused or related to a vaccine.

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You know what, it was a really good lecture and I’m going to share more more relevant slides in case any one else feels like contradicting me.

These slides show the public health impact of vaccines. Note the differences between the historical peak and post-vaccine era deaths columns. Because saving literally thousands of lives is totally a conspiracy you should beware of.

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And this is why herd immunity is so important! See how high it has to be for measles? Guess what we’re seeing outbreaks of thanks to anti-vaxxers? Don’t forget that one of the deadly complications of measles is SSPE.

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Look how Hepatitis A infections in older adults when down after kids started getting immunized. Shocking! Could vaccines be… good for …. everyone????

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Ahem.

Bitch just got science’d.

straightallies:

grumpyspacetoad:

hashtagthatsreal:

weteevee:

is this how christian couples takes baths together

I don’t understand why it needs the gender colored lighting….

straight people need reassurance at every step in their lives

no homo couple’s bathtub

Ignoring the unnecessary gendering, I have a weird thing about sharing bathwater so I would love one of these. I could share it with Kat!

straightallies:

grumpyspacetoad:

hashtagthatsreal:

weteevee:

is this how christian couples takes baths together

I don’t understand why it needs the gender colored lighting….

straight people need reassurance at every step in their lives

no homo couple’s bathtub

Ignoring the unnecessary gendering, I have a weird thing about sharing bathwater so I would love one of these. I could share it with Kat!

(Source: cleancore, via lgbtlaughs)

sqbr:

[Bird with implausibly bright colours]
theoreticalconstruct:

Note to self: Find out if this bird is for real.

I saw someone point out that this is a european starling. Here’s the original though even it looks shopped to me after staring at so many images. Here’s one with more subtle plumage.

Maybe there was a green light shining on it?

sqbr:

[Bird with implausibly bright colours]

theoreticalconstruct:

Note to self: Find out if this bird is for real.

I saw someone point out that this is a european starling. Here’s the original though even it looks shopped to me after staring at so many images. Here’s one with more subtle plumage.

Maybe there was a green light shining on it?

(Source: thetinystars)

butchimightbe:

Was feelin pretty the other day or something idk whatever.

Can’t get over how fucking awesome that hair is. Like, that is the best purple ever. 

You are gorgeous. 

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I hate that when tumblr recommends a blog to you, and you want to click the cross button to make it leave, it has horribly manipulative messages. Basically it implies that the reason you want to make it go away is “this disgusts me” “I hate this” “never again”.

Like, seriously, how about my dash is already full and that thing is just not interesting to me. They are very clearly trying to guilt you into not clicking the x.

Guess what, tumblr. I’m clicking that shit anyway.

http://www.autostraddle.com/science-magazine-runs-transmisogynistic-cover-editor-tweets-deception-tropes-when-challenged-246223/

Ugh, horrible fucking transmisogyny from Science magazine right now. Sexual objectification, image of trans women’s bodies without their heads, complete dismissal from the Sci Career Editor Jim Austin, a non-pology from the magazine editor… Fuck! 

mazikeenmorningstar:

knuffelvos:

wear your armor

whether it’s makeup, a band tshirt, your fandom pins, tattoos, jewelry, your favorite ripped pair of jeans, or something no one else can touch or see like your favorite song repeating like a mantra in your head, the sound of your own…

I like this version way more than “wear your war paint”. 

It’s so hard explaining to people that I absolutely hate socialising and social situations (like, horrible anxiety). But I have no problem at all with public speaking. I even kinda enjoy it.

We’ll be doing a group activity and I say “I’ll do the presentation” and everyone is like “go you for conquering fears!” Thank you, but it’s not a fear at all.
Then put me in a position where I have to socialise and it’s just, complete shut down and struggling.

The other thing is people keep complimenting how much more confident I am when socialising. No, I’m really not, I might never be. I’m just better at hiding my discomfort and saving it up for home. I get that people are trying to be supportive, but…. It’s just not true, and not actually helping :(

officialalltimelow:

There are 4 types of ‘friend’ levels:

  • Acquaintance 
  • Friend
  • Best friend
  • The person that will debate Harry Potter theory with you until the early hours of the morning

"The person that will debate Harry Potter theory with you until the early hours of the morning"

I normally call her “wife”.

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